I realize as I’m writing this that a lot can change between now and when this is actually published. Life is changing that fast these days. It’s scary. We all are at the whim of some outside force – a virus, the government, our employers – on how dramatically our daily lives are going to change. No one likes to lose control of their lives – and no one likes the insecurity of not knowing what’s coming next. So I’m not surprised by the variety of different reactions by people around the world.

At last count in my city we have 4 confirmed cases of COVID-19. The first case was announced last week. Being that we are one of the biggest cities in the south, I’m surprised it took so long to get here. But I also know we did not have great access to tests until recently – so I’m guessing life will change here very quickly soon.

Schools are already closed for the entire state. Preschool is still open (for us) but I’m not sure if I’m risking sending my son or not. My husband has been ordered to work from home. My employer is still open so I will be going to work. And in the fitness industry – I’m not sure what to expect. All I know is that I’ve been using lots of disinfectant lately – on equipment and on my hands! And I see all aspects of the spectrum. From those who are angry that things are closing over “the flu” to those who are hunkered in their homes afraid to go out.

We are somewhere in the middle. We are avoiding crowds – no malls, movie theaters, crowded restaurants. But I am still going to work, we are still ordering takeout, and we are washing our hands as much as possible.

The sad news is, I don’t see this ending anytime soon. Whether we follow suit of other nations and completely shut down, or we decide that we just have to live our lives despite this virus is yet to be seen.

The thing to remember is that we all have our own journey, emotions and reactions to the events. And we need to respect each others opinions, but follow the rules. If it’s state mandated that there should be no crowds of more that 100 people, maybe cap your bars numbers for St Patrick’s Day. And if you are willing to take your own chances with the virus, please respect others who do not want to take chances. If you are feeling the slightest bit off, stay at home. Quarantine yourself until you are well. Don’t spread the germs to someone who may not be as lucky as you. Just be kind. I know we are all upset of lost events, plans, etc. But we are all in this together – and we will survive it, together.